This has also been a really controversial take of mine. But I have an even more controversial opinion that if I'm not well aquanted or friends with you, using they/them to refer to you is not offensive. I can barely remember peoples names much less your specific pronouns
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At least in my experiance I've been dragged because "X told you their pronouns, using they means your trying to invalidate them" I've talked to X like 3 times and do not plan on being more then acquaintances/coworkers. Somedays I just want to say, "I wont remeber your pronouns because I don't care about you, not because I'm transphobic" but that would just create a lot of drama I would care even less about