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BrightFadedDog

Interested in sewing, gardening and preserving, with a strong focus on sustainability.

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  • As in thought they were talking about composting people? Yes. Yes I did.

    They are doing that in some places, but is generally something you have to fight to be allowed to do rather than compulsory.

  • I've started making a few non-financial changes to put me in a better position. I'm organising to move my work to a lower cost of living area, which will put me in a position that buying a property should be within reach. I've also upgraded my vehicle to a newer model (old car was 2006, just purchased a 2019 model). It's a small van instead of a car, with the potential to be made into a micro-camper which will give me some cheaper holiday options in the future.

    I had good timing selling some ETFs to get cash for the car (and because the move means my timeframe for wanting a house deposit have been moved forward). It wasn't at the peak of prices, but was before most of the drop.

  • I absolutely agree with everyone who recommends an older machine and a good service centre. But I've gone against that advice for myself and have a newer computerised machine for myself, simply because it has a needle threader and my eyesight is not great these days - I was starting to struggle to thread the needle on the older machine.

    Anything that's not the cheapest machine will generally be ok. Most of the fancy options that make machines expensive are not really necessary, as long as the machine can sew straight and zig-zag you have nearly everything covered.

  • I think just being more intentional about what you are engaging with is a really big thing, especially focusing on deeper engagement rather than the shallow skimming of repetitive content that most platforms encourage.

    I've been disentangling myself from Google as much as I can recently and one of the things I've noticed is that their AI suggestions for everything were taking up more of my attention than I realised - every text message or email I replied to used to pop up with "suggestions" about what I should reply and I really like not having that any more.

    The bit I find myself very conflicted about is Facebook. I hate their algorithms, I hate the constant stream of AI generated and adverstising rubbish, I hate their AI "questions" on every post. But there are a few niche groups on there that don't exist anywhere else, and that do allow me to have deeper discussions on specific topics and connect with local people. I'd love to get rid of Facebook entirely, but doing so would also mean I have to lose that deeper content that is valuable to me.

  • I'd mostly like to keep them to a few posts so the actual discussion posts won't get lost. At the moment the idea is people can post that sort of thing in the pinned introduction post, but I am thinking of something along the lines of themed picture posts in the future.

  • There are plenty of groups which have primarily photos, you are free to join those if that is what you are after. This group is for discussions, if that is not what you are after feel free not to join.

  • New Communities @lemmy.world
    BrightFadedDog @sh.itjust.works

    Pet Discussion for people to talk about all sorts of pets

    [email protected]

    https://sh.itjust.works/c/petdiscussion

    A group for people who own or are interested in all types of pets, with a focus on discussion and sharing information, not just posting pictures.

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    Moving with cats

    In a couple of months time I am going to be moving house, which is going to be really hard on my cat.

    I have some Gabapentin tablets that she takes before vet visits to help with the actual moving days, and am looking at the Feliway diffusers which will hopefully help.

    I've been reading lots of advice pages about moving, but would really love to hear some personal stories of people that have successfully moved with a cat too.

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    Multi-pet household – top tips for keeping the peace!

    I've always had more than one pet at a time, and often more than one type of pet too. Whilst it is a great thing to have it can also create challenges.

    One of the big challenges I have is managing food. When Miss Meow first joined the household she and Mr Woof would regularly swap meals and I spent ages trying to keep them apart. I moved Miss Meow's food onto the cat tree so it is further away and Mr Woof can't get to it and that has mostly fixed the problem. But Mr Woof is not a big eater and often leaves part of his meal behind, and if I'm not monitoring closely enough I'll find Miss Meow finishing off his dry food. As a result she's been getting a bit pudgy and the vet has recommended a diet, so I'm going to need to be a lot more careful about making sure I pick up Mr Woof's leftovers straight away.

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    Introductions and pictures

    Hi, I'm BrightFadedDog. I currently share my house with a cat and a dog, and have in the past had multiple dogs, rabbits, guinea pigs and lovebirds.

    I've started this community because I would like a place to talk about my pets and share information, not just see lots of cute pictures (not that cute pictures aren't good, I just don't that to be all there is). As the owner of different types of pets I also want a place that's not just dedicated to a single type of pet, so hopefully owners of a variety of pet types will be able to find a home here.

  • Lemmy is trying to help stop me procrastinating and refusing to let me log in to my Aussie.zone account on the computer. I'm going to show it that my procrastination cannot be stopped so easily and clean out the cat litter tray. The things we do when we should be studying. 🤣

  • I vote we officially name the spinny thing the Spinny Wheel of Deletion.

  • "> insert Spinny erasor comment here>"

  • I'm not sure that "just" digging a trench and burying waste in a garden bed that you have conveniently lying around unused waiting for next year's vegetables is either easy, or practical for most people with limited garden sizes.

    The author tries to make it sound like some sort of free and easy method of just scattering waste without any rules, but in reality there are a lot of provisos. You have to have an area of ground you don't need to use to be able to spread everything out so you are not creating one stinking pile. You have to have opportunities to collect all of the material, and although it is glossed over in the article the inclusion of the paper plates, napkins, shredded documents etc. would be vital to this working - the "ratios" that are sneered at as if they are some sort of arbitrary rule you can gleefully ignore are the difference between composting and rot (too much green material) or mulch (a layer of dry brown material). Covering the material with mulch is not just about making it look better because you are fussy, it actually allows the right conditions of moisture & darkness to allow the organisms to break down the waste, if you don't do that you will mostly get dried up old food sitting on top of the ground.

    Hot composting, where the goal is maximum nutrients as quickly as possible, can be a complicated process and presenting that as the standard method does put a lot of people off. But presenting the alternative as "there are no rules" is misleading and likely to lead to failure for a lot of people too. Understanding a bit about how composting works, especially that there does need to be a balance of materials to feed the soil organisms that are doing the work for you, will lead to a much greater ability to create a system that works for each individual's circumstances.

  • Mashed fruits are a puree. From the USDA canning guide (which I think is available free online):

  • If society valued my contribution they would give me working conditions that were decent enough that I didn't desperately want to leave. "Society" is currently extracting way more than a fair share of what people like me (on an average wage) produce so that the rich can indulge in excessive consumption. I don't know how you get the idea that everyone who plans to retire early has a valuable skilled profession and high social power. For a lot of people the focus is on extreme frugility to try to scrape enough money together to have some freedom to spend time doing things you find valuable.

    Basically yes, I am of the mindset that I don't owe anything to society. I'm "lucky" to have an average wage and not minimum wage I suppose, especially given that the current argument in society is that minimum wage is not supposed to be high enough to support yourself independently. "Society" has been telling me for years that my essential job that they are so grateful to me for doing is also a drain on "taxpayer money" and that I don't deserve pay rises that keep pace with inflation, let alone average wages.

  • How different stoves work for you partly depends on what types of things you cook, but there are also a lot of variations in how crappy standard electric stoves are.

    I've used old coil stoves that were not that bad, but my mother's new glass topped thing was so awful I learnt not to even try cooking some dishes. If you needed to brown anything you had to put the pan on for a 10-15 minute preheat to get anywhere near hot enough, then if you needed to reduce the heat to simmer it was best to just move to another burner if you could because it would take 5+ minutes to cool down. The top heat was just enough to brown something if you left it a long time and did not crowd the pan, but doing something like searing a steak or making a stir-fry just wasn't possible.

    But then I've also used gas stoves that are hard to work with and don't have much control over the temperature - even my current stove I tend to switch burners to accommodate different heat levels better. So I guess a lot comes down to having the right specific stove to meet your requirements, more than being just a gas vs. electric issue. Having previously believed I'd never want anything other than gas I have been pretty impressed by the portable induction cooker I've been trying out, and I'm sure a better quality model would suit me for pretty much everything.

  • Oh, of course. Poor people just need to get enough money to own property and build everything required to create an autonomous society.

    You have a wildly different definition of poverty to me.

  • What you are proposing is that "poor people" should all band together and create a new separate society, which is basically communist. Like some sort of left-wing Sovereign Citizen movement.

    One big problem with this concept is that you cannot create a new separate economics whilst living in wider society. You still need to live somewhere, and you will need to pay the landlord with money. You will need to pay the electricity bill with money. You will still need to use joint facilities like roads, and the State is not going to happily provide all that to you for free, they will be looking at your new little economy and working out exactly how to value it to send you a tax bill.

    While you are dealing with all of these issues, you also have to deal with the people within the group. How are you running it and making sure it is fair? It takes a massive amount of work to manage something like this on even a small scale. So you will need some sort of tax on transactions so that the people putting the time in to running it can be covered. Who is actually going to join if everyone's time is valued equally - it will be a great deal for people whose skills are not valued on wider society, but a bad one for anyone with more valuable skills. So you won't end up with a wide skill set involved, and can't cover the requirements to do everything needed. So for example if you found a farmer who wanted to provide all their produce through this scheme, you could not provide the resources they need to produce and transport the produce. There is a massive difference between "making food" (ie, working at McDonalds) and actually creating food.

    Plus what happens when things go wrong? When the person you arranged to come over to help you with something falls and hurts themselves, or they do substandard work that damages your property? Is your mutual aid group providing some sort of insurance coverage? Do you have some sort of dispute resolution process to mediate problems?

    Having a strong community that supports members and shares resources can definitely be a good thing, and help to improve the lives of everyone involved. But "quit your shitty job and create a mutual aid network" is not at all a viable path to prosperity (or even to survival).

  • You should be able to replace the valves with a weighted valve. Then you don't need to worry about the dial gauge accuracy as it is regulated by the weight.

  • I use Excel. Apps generally seem to be focused on tracking spending, and are less useful for modeling future changes. If I want to look at my actual spending in more detail I can use the banks apps for that, the spreadsheet is more future focused.

    I have been working on the spreadsheet for years with gradual improvements all the time, and it is exactly customised to my needs. So I can calculate my pay (which is variable and based on a ludicrously complicated structure), allocate the money based on a mix of set and percentage figures, model the impact of future changes such as increases in power costs or getting another pet, and estimate at any time how much I have accrued for utility bills not yet received.

  • Sewing, Repairing and Reducing Waste @sh.itjust.works
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    My method for darning socks - video link

    I have made a short video showing how I darn my socks, using a netting stitch rather than straight stitches.

    It's the first time I've ever made a video & the stitiching is not the finest or neatest I have ever done, but I hope it shows the process well enough to follow.

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    Into sewing? Here's a giant map of secondhand fabric stores by city! (USA & Canada)

    This looks like a great resource for anyone in USA & Canada

  • I've been thinking a lot about what makes for a good group since I moved to Lemmy. Small and engaged is what I came up with, and authentic is definitely part of that. A lot of people's normal response is to look for the biggest group for everything, but I believe once a group passes a certain size it loses the ability to have good constructive discussions - at best you get a core group participating and a lot of people who just watch, but more often you lose the space for anything exept superficial conversations as everything that is not new gets lost in the volume.

    It's a pity Lemmy does not allow for subgroups, as that would be a good option for larger groups. The best options I have come up with so far are including weekly themed posts, and ongoing posts for specific topics linked from the sidebar so they can be kept visible. I think moderating a group well involves being part librarian, not just the rules enforcement most people focus on.

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    Re-covering a sewing stool

    This project is more stapling than sewing, but small upholstery projects are quite easy to do, and can be done with small amounts of fabric and padding. The padding for this project was mostly layers cut from an old quilt.

    When you pull apart things like this you often find old repairs and layers of previous fabrics. It can be quite interesting to see the way they have been put together.

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    Scrapbusting: How to make Fabric Twine

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    Reducing Food Waste: Eight Tips for Home Cooks

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    A Complete Guide to Paper Composting

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