I’m now on good terms with his ex. It turns out he’s only nice to certain people his brain approves of. While he certainly likes me at least as a friend, he has mental issues and a lot of personal issues he can’t share.

(Reason but not an excuse)

He’s been giving mixed signals as well, such as dressing fancy all of a sudden, staring at me a lot, sometimes being nice and other times rude. I get that he’s unstable (obviously) and he generally acts like this with people he’s attached to but it still makes me wonder if he would treat me this way if he actually did have feelings for me.

кросс-пост из: https://lemmy.ca/post/42215774

I (18nb/18m) have been friends with Karl (18m/maybe 19m now) since freshman year. We had been seated together in science class on the first day and really hit it off since then. Karl also has bad social anxiety and already had when I met him, so he only really talked to and trusted me.

Later on in freshman year, I had a friend group with a guy I’ll call Liam, and Karl asked if he could join it because he was looking for friends but was painfully shy so would only befriend Liam’s group if I was there with him. Karl and Liam got close pretty quickly.

I had unrequited feelings for Liam at the time, but thought nothing of it when he and Karl started to get close until Liam told me he was attracted to Karl, and that he was going to confess to him soon. Of course, I was happy for him but was also trying to hide my jealousy. When Liam confessed to Karl, he said yes, and for a while, I knew Karl was interested in him as he told me “I

I (18nb/18m) have been friends with Karl (18m/maybe 19m now) since freshman year. We had been seated together in science class on the first day and really hit it off since then. Karl also has bad social anxiety and already had when I met him, so he only really talked to and trusted me.

Later on in freshman year, I had a friend group with a guy I’ll call Liam, and Karl asked if he could join it because he was looking for friends but was painfully shy so would only befriend Liam’s group if I was there with him. Karl and Liam got close pretty quickly.

I had unrequited feelings for Liam at the time, but thought nothing of it when he and Karl started to get close until Liam told me he was attracted to Karl, and that he was going to confess to him soon. Of course, I was happy for him but was also trying to hide my jealousy. When Liam confessed to Karl, he said yes, and for a while, I knew Karl was interested in him as he told me “I think I’m straight mostly, but I’d totally go out with Lia

I, in the past, have posted about my journey with Karl, but I realized he was really moody, had internalized homophobia, and though at times he was nice, his moodiness, bossiness and somewhat rude behavior wasn’t a good match for me.

I remember after hearing I was talking to a girl (romantically), he got a bit mad and moody. He gets really weird on the topic of crushes as well but his behavior reminds me too much of some annoying girl in freshman year.

I guess I like him a little and I’m just upset a bit, but still.

I’m planning to learn Spanish from Spain and French from France.

It feels wrong to jump into a relationship after trying to get over someone and not fully being over them, so I’m gonna wait a while before I pursue this girl and will break up if I just can’t move on.

I don’t want to break up, but I’ll have to for a while, so I hope I can get over the crush soon so we can both date :3

So I (18NB, 18MTF) started dating this really nice girl (17F) who I’ve known at my school for a while.

I told everyone I know about her, I like her, she likes me. However, I’m still not completely over Karl (even though he’s been kind of an ass TBH since he started being friends with his ex.)

I told her if I couldn’t move on, I would have to break up with her and couldn’t go out with her if I had a crush on someone else.

I’m aware I told her about all these things, like going to a restaurant, having fun at the arcade, kissing her, etc, but now I’m having second thoughts and I guess she’s upset.

The last time we talked, she asked me about our relationship and I told her to stop talking about it. She did, I guess, but won’t talk at all now.

Update: A new message reads “I really hope this will work out. I love you ❤️. Also, please know that if it doesn’t, I won’t talk for a while, but it’s not because I’m mad at you. I just need to process things, especially with my depression and a

Pamiętam, że kiedyś mieszałem angielski i polski/rosyjski, więc wygląda to tak:

„Hi guys! What’s up? Mój tata powiedział, że I could only hang out kilka minut.” (oczywiście nie do końca, ale jest wystarczająco blisko)

So, yes, I still like Karl, the guy I’ve been talking about, but I can be attracted to more than one person.

So, Nichole (17F) and I (18nb) have been talking a lot more recently. We’ve been friends since sophomore year (she was a freshman) but we haven’t really talked until recently.

I started to gain feelings for her after we did more stuff together, like calling.

Quite recently, we were discussing sex, and she said she would be down to have sex with me.

She also said that we could date if I wanted to, but if I didn’t see her that way, we could just be friends with benefits.

So, I (18nb) have posted about Karl (18m) before. I’ve had a huge crush on him for a while. Everything about him is so hot.

I’m into him in many different ways, which has never happened before (but obviously I want to try for romantic).

Buuut, after we go our separate ways due to going to different universities, we aren’t gonna see each other ever.

I will also probably be going to a different town, and I only had a few classes with him which I don’t anymore.

I’ve tried possibly going to his house and arranging dates to hang out but he’s really busy with athletics and I can’t text him because he doesn’t use his phone.

I used to swear a lot. I decided to not swear at all (except for possibly mild swears), instead replacing most swears with minced oaths.

My family is Christian and I would get yelled at for swearing even if it just slipped out. So far, I don’t swear unless I’m feeling a strong emotion or acting impulsively, but I’ll usually say things like “F/eff” or “fudge” instead of the F-word.

I like to be “creative”, so my go-tos are usually “Go fudge yourself”, or “What the cluck?”

I might say “mother lover” instead of MF

Beklager det tilfeldige spørsmålet, jeg laget et fellesskap på norsk for LHBT-personer og jeg bestemte meg for å spørre her fordi jeg vet at andre steder på Lemmy snakker engelsk/snakker ikke norsk.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ca/post/39838089

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Jeg er Voytek. Jeg er eieren av dette fellesskapet og jeg er ikke-binære og bifile

Jeg lærer fortsatt norsk men jeg elsker språket

Hi Aurora, I got your message that you made this. Can I moderate this one?

This community serves to be similar to Internationale except you can post almost anything and connect with people who speak different languages.

lemmy.ca, my instance, is the only one I can load. When I try to browse other Lemmy instances, it just shows a white screen or says my browser can’t open the page.

Everyone is different. Some people who are non binary but lean/present as feminine might use feminine words, but others I’ve seen use the masculine because they think modifying the grammar is complicated.

I personally use the gender-neutral modified language, like using elle in Spanish.