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  • Have you told her how that phrasing affects you? She can't change what she says if she doesn't know it bothers you.

    Also, have you talked to her about why she wants things to finish up? Being done fucking could be for several different reasons, and some of those could be addressed so she doesn't want it to stop.

    For my wife it's because she gets sore if we go a while, and wants to finish before things start hurting, so I know it's time to grab the vibe to push her over the edge (something like 80% of women struggle to orgasm from penetration alone).

  • It might not be that. My wife used to say stuff like that, but that's because after ~10-15m she starts to get sore. Basically she's asking me to hurry up while she's still enjoying it.

    She does phrase it better now, saying things like, "I want you to cum for me," or, "I want you to fill me up," which does help mentally.

  • Yvonne Bar

  • She's not. That's untreated body dysmorphic disorder.

    People like that will never be happy with their looks until they address the root cause instead of finding unethical doctors to butcher them.

  • You can actually get anal plugs that have ball bearings in them that bounce around as you move, so you get vibration without electric parts.

    But ultimately, it's just something you've gotta try a few different things until you find something that works for your body. There's a few hundred silicone prostate massagers out there.

    The way I searched was using AliExpress. They're the exact same thing as the $10-20 ones on Amazon for $2-5, if you can wait a few weeks.

    I'd recommend getting a set to start with until you find what insertable length works best for you. Unfortunately, whomever designs the toys seem to think that longer massagers need to be thicker too, so you might need to work up to one.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    thepianistfroggollum @lemmynsfw.com

    How can a vape heating coil use a metal wick?

    I know electricity will take the shortest/easiest path to ground, and that path for a wire wrapped around a bigger wire/cable should be shorting through the bigger wire.

    Right?

    Edit: Turns out I was right about electricity, but wrong about how the genesis style atomizers were wicked. I didn't know the cable was just to draw the liquid from the tank to the cotton. I thought the cable was a cotton replacement.