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  • I think I misread your comment post. You said at the end that you have now accepted your bisexuality, but I get the feeling your sissy kink stems from wanting to get fucked by guys before you were out, but I'm not trying psychoanalyze you or anything.

  • Bisexuality still seems to be at the kink phase for OP. I was there a few years ago when I was dating cis women. I've always been a bottom, but I used to be much more masculine-presenting. The gendering of top/bottom roles is too heteronormative to me, but I am into femboys and drag queens... idk

    Recently my bf explained to me that I'm a brat, but he was drunk and he also said he was thinking about transitioning so I'm not sure if he/they is a brat/sissy tamer or just someone who plays that way when they're in a certain mood.

  • Are you my boyfriend? jk jk but as a non-binary transfem who gets misgendered every day and has a lot of male-coded attributes I can sorta relate. I think if you're medically transitioning that probably means your dysphoria is worse. If one of your male-coded qualities is stoicism, I recommend letting your sadness show more visibly and communicating more openly about how you feel and what you're thinking. That way, people are less likely to call your judgment into question.

  • I never watched. I feel like there should be shows in the "new adult" category that focus more on gay dating clubbing drama and sex, with less focus on tragedy and high school bs. It's strange to be like an exotic species in the media when irl half of the people I run into are openly queer. I don't mean to judge but the way the book and show are marketed seems strange to me

  • It's corporate interests that generate lists of things that shareholders don't want on a platform. There are several shared repos that aren't for profit, some with a policy of only allowing open source software. You wouldn't put all the art assets on there as the servers have limited capacity, but in principle "adult content" isn't universally prohibited in places where it isn't the primary focus.

  • askgaybros @lemm.ee
    lazyneet @programming.dev

    Considerations for pursuing long-term relationships with guys?

    At 31, I have had 6-10 sexual partners (depending on what counts), half guys, half girls. My female partners (including one transfem) were mostly interested in long-term relationships, as am I. My male partners were all hookups with no follow-up, much to my disappointment. As I am now actively looking for a boyfriend, are there any special considerations when courting men, as opposed to women, for this purpose?

    r/unixsocks on fediverse @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    lazyneet @programming.dev

    Xubuntu running cmatrix

    Linux @lemmy.ml
    lazyneet @programming.dev

    Building and distributing binaries

    It's been a long day and I'm probably not in the best state of mind to be asking this question, but have you guys solved packaging yet?

    I want to ship an executable with supporting files in a compressed archive, much like the Windows exe-in-a-zip pattern. I can cross-compile a Win32 C program using MinGW that will always use baseline Win32 functionality, but if I try to build for Linux I run into the whole dependency versioning situation, specifically glibc fixing its symbol version to whichever Linux I happen to be building from at the time. But if I try to static link with musl, the expectation is that everything is static linked, including system libraries that really shouldn't be.

    AppImage is in the ballpark of what I'm looking for, and I've heard that Zig works as a compatibility-enhancing frontend if you're compiling C. I'd just like something simple that runs 99% of the time for non-technical end users and isn't bloated with dependencies I can't keep track of. (No containers.)