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  • I don't see any way this is anything but a filament issue, it's not like your print head could print a layer after the layer on top of it...

    fwiw, I've had similar issues with some multicolor filaments, I think sometimes they just aren't made quite right but still pass QA.

  • cis women don’t like when trans women are included as women because some trans women didn’t grow up as women and thus didn’t experience the same sexism, misogyny, and socialization that victimized them.

    I've discussed this exact topic with my (cis woman) partner who struggles with this quite a bit, it's wild because she's very accepting and supportive of trans people, but struggles with feeling like the unique horrors of the Cis Woman Experience™ are sort-of being appropriated by trans women? it's a really weird thing to address, because I see where she's coming from, but I just feel that telling like 1% of women that they can't call themselves "women" without a qualifier is needlessly derisive.

    I think enbies are liable to experience more discrimination and hate than binary trans people, esp. once the medical transition reaches a point where the trans person is able to conform to the expected gender norms. Enbies in both social and medical transition are often aiming to permanently occupy that in-between space that makes early transition so difficult for so many trans people

    hey, it me! what's extra weird is that I feel almost pressured to fit into feminine gender norms to try to avoid being in the "please discriminate against me" class of people, but at the same time, I just... don't want to be there all the time? like wearing a dress and makeup while cleanshaven is a wonderful time when it's the gender vibe, but other times I just want to wear jeans and a tee and not bother shaving without being seen as a fruity man by 90% of people. honestly, thinking about it, the sheer effort I have to put in to not be read as a man while also not quite being read as a woman is, frankly, exhausting.

  • HRT isn’t not a magic cure-all but it does feel magical at times, results come pretty slowly at our age, and get started whenever you want to because you can get at least a couple of months of the emotional and mental effects before any permanent physical effects happen (and a month or three is plenty of time to decide to turn back if you don’t like the emotional and mental effects).

  • 33 here and started HRT about two and a half years ago.

  • I guess it depends on if the DSS upgrade follows the rules of Pit Crew Hazard Pay or Advanced Crew Training, but I'm assuming the latter until proven (happily) wrong.

  • They also have one of the best reward programs for designers, and creating an account isn't difficult; I really don't see how this is an issue where links should be banned.

    Plus this post isn't even a makerworld link, it's a hackaday link, so a URL filter wouldn't have done anything in this case anyways.

  • The ship upgrade that reduces Eagle Re-Arm is specifically for when you use the stratagem with some Eagle stratagem uses remaining, so I'm assuming the DSS boost would only be for the Re-Arm stratagem, too.

  • I’m not gonna tell you what you are or aren’t but as 6’6” transfem there’s something awesome about being a tower of lesbian.

  • owning, and dealing with the regular issues of, a Sovol SV07 is what made me buy a P1S + AMS combo in the first place

  • It may have just been a one-off, but I hated my SV07 so much that I've sworn off Sovol for good (the SV07's constant issues are what pushed me to get a P1S, actually).

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  • I really want to watch it but it left theaters here after like a two-week run.

  • it's worth noting that CFA stopped donating to queerphobic organizations awhile back, has a DEI department now, and is one of the few fast food chains not on the BDS boycott list for Palestine. like I get that hating on 'em is a meme but they have good fries and are less problematic than half the other fast food chains at this point...

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  • Yeah, I really do not envy OP her Christianity; I'm so glad I was mostly over that phase of my life by the time I started examining my gender and realizing I wasn't just depressed, but dysphoric.

    EDIT: To clarify, absolutely not saying Christianity (or any religion) is "just a phase" for everyone. Just that it certainly was for me, and I'm happy to be past it and to have partially dealt with the trauma from it.

  • It certainly is in some ways; can’t get through a given week without questioning whether maybe I’m just cis and want to be unique or a binary trans woman in denial. But on the other hand, I do have my feeling of simply not fitting into the gender binary to fall back on, which is there even when gender dysphoria and euphoria are not.

  • As somebody transfeminine and nonbinary, this really spoke to me. I think part of why it took me so long to figure out I’m trans is that I don’t want to be super femme 90%+ of the time, I just want to throw on jeans and a tee and not be read as male. Like I’m nonbinary, but I want to present as a tomboy or as close to nonbinary on a female base form as I can get, if that makes sense?

    Anyways the article was excellent and I’m glad I read it.

  • Big recommend to just jump straight to OrcaSlicer. It has Bambu Studio's much-improved-over-PrusaSlicer UI but with features ported in from PrusaSlicer and SuperSlicer and compatibility with non-Bambu printers.

  • Are you saying that AR's consent laws are fucked or that sex with a minor is A-okay if it's legal where somebody lives?

  • man who had sex with a minor

    The terms "pedophile" and "rapist" exist, why use such soft terms to describe such an awful human?

  • Well happy belated birthday to me!

    And I preordered within a week of the original announcement. The new old plaza is a bit of a gimmick, but still fun for nostalgia's sake.

  • This is fantastic. Is the file hosted anywhere?

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    lapis @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    trans philosophers rule