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ugly bag of mostly water

don't keep sweatin' what I do 'cause I'm gonna be just fine

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  • Yeah, I agree. I've said something similar in the past - I think women are raised to be adults by 18, whereas boys are raised to be overgrown tweens by 18, and their parents call it "good enough", leaving the rest of the job to future girlfriends and wives.

    It does everybody a disservice, and it perpetuates this idea that girls mature faster than boys. We don't. We're just forced to grow all the way up and boys aren't.

    • Hudson Leick (Calisto on Xena)
    • David Yost (Billy on MMPR)
    • Toni Braxton (that Unbreak My Heart video? Come on!)
    • Tyson Beckford (speaking of that video!)
    • John Henson (Talk Soup)
    • Tiffani-Amber Thiessen
    • Siddig El Fadil
    • And of course Terry Farrell
  • Parenting

  • The source material isn't great. Interesting concept but painful execution at times. The three novels (Wool, Shift, and Dust) read like YA. I stubbornly read my way through them during pandemic but it was rough going and I ended up donating them to my library because I knew I'd never want to read them again.

    I've watched the first two seasons of the show, and I think they're doing a reasonably good job given how mediocre the novels are. Pacing and characters making dumb decisions are both problems, but they were problems in the books too.

  • He was from Cuba, his father was in Cuba, his uncle was in the USA and wanted to keep him here. He needed to be returned to his father but it should've been via negotiation. The raid was not the way to go. IIRC Janet Reno just got impatient with diplomacy?

  • Android @lemmy.world
    klemptor @startrek.website

    How to get rid of red status bar message?

    I have a Samsung Galaxy S21 and I just got the new OneUI update. Now when I watch media in Jerboa there's an annoying scrolling notification that appears:

    How do I get rid of this?

    Also how do I get rid of whatever this is in my edge tray?

    Thanks in advance!

    Edit: I figured out the first one, search settings for the Now Bar and disable whatever you don't want to see

    WomensStuff @lazysoci.al
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Interesting YouTube channels

    What women-led YouTube channels do you all like? Share them below!

    WomensStuff @lazysoci.al
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Any advice about starting tretinoin?

    Hey friends. I've recently realized that what I thought were freckles is actually melasma, and my dermatologist has prescribed me tretinoin for it. I have very pale skin, generally normal in the winter and a little oilier in the T-zone during the summer, but it can dry out really badly with things like AHA. From what I've heard, tret is pretty drying. My dermatologist recommended that I start with applying it only two nights a week, and using a pea-sized amount mixed into my moisturizer. I use the Tatcha Water Cream moisturizer, which is pretty light and has been great for me, but with tret I'm wondering if I'll need a heavier moisturizer. I'm also worried that my usual double-cleansing will worsen the dryness from tret. I double-cleanse with an oil balm to remove my mineral sunblock, then with the Tatcha Rice Wash to get rid of the sunblock & oil balm residue. But I'm thinking the rice wash might be irritating because it's got a (mild) physical exfoliant, so maybe I need to find somet

    Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    klemptor @startrek.website

    New community for women's interests

    Hi ladies! Today CheeseToastie created a new community for women's interests (makeup, skincare, health, nail polish, etc). I've agreed to share it around so if you're interested, come join us at [email protected]

    (Mods, if this type of post isn't allowed, my apologies!)

    Community Promo @lemmy.ca
    klemptor @startrek.website

    New community for discussing women's interests

    Today CheeseToastie created a new community for women's interests (makeup, women's health, skincare, whatever). I've agreed to share it around so if you're interested, come join us at [email protected]

    WomensStuff @lazysoci.al
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Help me pick out St Paddy's Day nail polish!

    Ladies, help me choose nail polish for a St Paddy's Day fest this weekend! I will be wearing all the tacky plastic shamrock shit the grocery store will sell me (plus green eyeshadow). Here are the contenders (from left to right):

    ILNP - Reminisce
    ILNP - 1UP
    Cirque Colors - High Society
    Cirque Colors - Mood Ring (magnetic)
    Cirque Colors - Ethel
    Orly - It's Not Rocket Science
    Sinful Colors - Calypso

    Which one should I go with?

    Jerboa @lemmy.ml
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Are gifs broken?

    Since the last release, I find that gifs won't play in Jerboa anymore. For example, this comment just appears as a static image for me, even when I click on it. Do you see the same behavior?

    Edit: solved by user merde alors:

    did you enable "auto play GIFs" in settings>look&feel ?

    Then close and reopen the app and that should fix it.

    cute dogs, cats, and other animals @lemmy.ml
    klemptor @startrek.website

    My favorite lady stuck her head in the lilac bush

    aww @lemmy.world
    klemptor @startrek.website

    My favorite lady stuck her head in the lilac bush

    cute dogs, cats, and other animals @lemmy.ml
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Update on my favorite lady 💚

    A few weeks ago I posted that my greyhound Greta was in the hospital, and so many of you left such nice comments and well wishes - thank you! She's been back home for a couple weeks now and is doing great.

    Here she is with her latest bandage (featuring a G💚 decoration because my vet's office is the best!):

    aww @lemmy.world
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Update on my favorite lady 💚

    A few weeks ago I posted that my greyhound Greta was in the hospital, and so many of you left such nice comments and well wishes - thank you! She's been back home for a couple weeks now and is doing great.

    Here she is with her latest bandage (featuring a G💚 decoration because my vet's office is the best!):

    Jerboa @lemmy.ml
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Decrease swipe sensitivity, and add vote coloration?

    Jerboa devs, thank you so much for the latest updates - I'm really digging the swipe-to-vote functionality! I do find that it's a little too sensitive and registers votes when I'm simply trying to scroll up or down in my feed or a comments section. I guess I don't always scroll in a perfectly vertical path. Would it be possible to decrease the sensitivity for the swipe-to-vote - maybe requiring a greater deviation from the vertical before a vote registers?

    Another really helpful feature would be to add vote indicators to the right of comments - the entire rightmost edge of the comment could have a color matching the vote I gave it, or no color if I haven't voted. Often if I'm reading a long comment I upvote it halfway through, then by the end of the comment I can't remember if I've voted so I have to either long-press or scroll back up to find out. Color indicators in the margin would be helpful!

    aww @lemmy.world
    klemptor @startrek.website

    My favorite lady

    My little old lady is in the doggo hospital right now (she will be fine) and I miss her and her sweet lil pointy face.

    Please share pics of your dogs to cheer me up, especially if there are any grey owners here!

    cute dogs, cats, and other animals @lemmy.ml
    klemptor @startrek.website

    My favorite lady

    My little old lady is in the doggo hospital right now (she will be fine) and I miss her and her sweet lil pointy face.

    Please share pics of your dogs to cheer me up, especially if there are any grey owners here!

    SkincareAddiction @sh.itjust.works
    klemptor @startrek.website

    Help me get glass skin in my forties!

    I've always had pretty nice, low-maintenance skin but now that I'm in my forties I find it needs extra attention. One thing I'd really like to improve is getting the glassy look. It seems like most women who achieve this are pretty young and/or on tret. I don't want to try tret because I'm very pale and already sun-sensitive. (At this point I've lost count of how many atypical things my dermatologist has lopped off, despite religiously using mineral sunscreen!)

    My current skincare routine is here. It's definitely made a difference for me but I'm looking to refine it.

    What can I tweak to get glass skin? Or is it even possible at my age without tret?