You've given me a hell of a lot to think about, dude. I heard someone say recently, "why would the same media that lies about Gaza tell the truth about Ukraine?" And the seed had been planted. But, like I said earlier, I hadn't seen any contrary opinions other than obvious bloodthirsty fascists who just have no sympathy for Ukraine's citizens and like the idea of massive conflict.
If the picture you paint is true - that the West had essentially been building a military presence in Eastern Europe to deliberately threaten Russia, and that Eastern Ukraine genuinely considered themselves part of Russia - then I find it had to argue with what happened.
But, i have to admit, something is making it hard for me to truly accept. Somehow it's harder to accept than accepting the truth that Israel is genociding Palestinians.
I'll have to do some thinking and research. Thanks for putting up with me.