It's definitely like this. I don't entirely mind it for myself, because it reminds me to log off before I can get into a doomscroll where I'm assailed by my family member's awful opinions. I only use FB for marketplace/buy nothing groups, and the barrage of shitty ads/promo posts helps me log off as soon as I've found what I need (or have given up on finding what I need).
Clothes Knitting Patterns for Blahaj?
Hej all! I've gotten into knitting lately but don't always have ideas for what to make. My partner suggested making a little sweater or something like that for our haj son and I love it! Has anyone done something like this? I'm a total beginner so don't know anything about making my own patterns (or reading them tbh - but for Blahaj, I'll learn). Would love to see any patterns or suggestions 💙
Good to get confirmation - I cut around it and will see how it goes. If it is a goner, at least now I know what to do better next time 😔
For those who have regrown bok choy from scraps in water - is it normal for parts to get mushy? Is she a lost cause?
This is my first attempt at regrowing (baby) bok choy from kitchen scraps. The growth is great but the outside is super wet and mushy. Is there any fixing this, or is this stalk a total goner?
Lomi "composter" & methane emissions question
Not sure if this is the right space for this question, but gonna try anyway - please forgive me if it isn't!
So, first thing’s first - I know Lomi isn’t actually good for composting. I bought mine secondhand for a fraction of the price because there’s no food scrap drop off near me, and I am not interested in doing a proper home compost. I don’t have any plants; I’m only interested in reducing my food waste.
One question that I keep coming back to, and that I’ve had a lot of trouble getting the answer to, is does Lomi actually reduce methane emissions? The website says yes: “With Lomi, food waste undergoes aerobic break down (in the presence of oxygen), meaning methane isn’t produced. Then, when Lomi fertilizer is used in plants, carbon is sequestered in soil and plant matter.” However… I’m not using it for fertilizing plants. I just use it to process food waste so I’m not just throwing it directly into the trash.
Does it compact the trash? 100%. We usually throw out the output aft
Lomi "composter" & methane emissions question
Hi all! So, first thing's first - I know Lomi isn't actually good for composting. I bought mine secondhand for a fraction of the price because there's no food scrap drop off near me, and I am not interested in doing a proper home compost. I don't have any plants; I'm only interested in reducing my food waste.
One question that I keep coming back to, and that I've had a lot of trouble getting the answer to, is does Lomi actually reduce methane emissions? The website says yes: "With Lomi, food waste undergoes aerobic break down (in the presence of oxygen), meaning methane isn't produced. Then, when Lomi fertilizer is used in plants, carbon is sequestered in soil and plant matter." However... I'm not using it for fertilizing plants. I just use it to process food waste so I'm not just throwing it directly into the trash.
Does it compact the trash? 100%. We usually throw out the output after maybe 6 cycles; that's the equivalent of 5 freezer bags full of food scraps (mostly banana peels
I believe some of it is cold war sentiment, but also, the fact that Russia has remained a political enemy of the US. I also suspect a part of it is that it's harder to find Russian (or Russian-speaking) actors who would agree to play such dehumanizing roles, but obviously, a lot of actors don't have the luxury of choosing. A big improvement would be to have actual Russian-speaking consultants involved in casting - which, IMO, would be good for casting any actor for a foreign-language-speaking role. It's bizarre to me that it's not already a bare minimum requirement for people to be fluent in the languages they're speaking.
It's extremely frustrating to me as a native Russian speaker (just commented about this in another thread), since Hollywood looooves Russian villains but hates hiring Russian actors. I actually could not watch later seasons of Stranger Things because of this. I've lived in the US my whole life and am now way more fluent in English than Russian, but chose to watch some episodes in Russian because it was way more bearable.
Totally agreed. I'm Ukrainian and nothing gets me as heated watching any movie as Russian villains (almost always played by non-Russian-speaking actors). Hollywood looooves movie villains that reflect the government's Big Bad Wolves and it's just disgusting to me. Beyond the obvious facts that xenophobia is bad and using the film industry to stoke the fires of the US's international feuds is bad, it just fucking hurts the way it feels like people put on costumes to approximate my dad's appearance and voice because it's the most basic shorthand for "evil" they can think of.
Yay!! Welcome to the family new haj!!
I get what you mean, but I disagree. As a teen, I thought I had an obligation to come out to everyone, and make a whole big announcement. It was a huge relief to hear that actually, I don't owe anyone information that would be exhausting to share and could make my life harder. It was my choice, and no one else's, and there was no timeline I had to follow.
Exactly this! I pick and choose who knows based on how comfy I am around someone. Like you, I'm bi in a "straight-passing" relationship, so many people aren't aware; my dad will probably never know unless I date a girl, or he finds out in some random way, but I just don't really care to share that part of my life with him. The older I get, the less effort I make to keep anything a secret. But I don't make a strong conscious effort to come out to people if I don't feel like it.
Hot take, but you don't actually have to come out if you don't feel like it. Or, you can come out in another way - for example, when the time comes, be like "hey, I have a [boy/girl/whatever applicable term]friend and I want you to meet them." If you still want to be out but don't feel like it right now, maybe wait a little bit and then come out to the people you're most sure will respond well.
Good luck with your journey and I hope it goes better next time. Just remember to listen to your needs and not push yourself out of any sense of obligation.
Cucumber because I love cucumbers and zucchini doesn't bring me that much joy