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if I ever offended you or hurt your feelings, please know that I would very much like to understand and make amends. I will not be logging back in here, but feel free to reach out to me on matrix.
❤️ I love you and think of you often. the world is a terrible and cruel place right now, but please know that you are loved, and I wish for you –:each and every one of you❤️❤️❤️❤️ – to flourish. 🫂 xoxo
public apology for unacceptably poor upvote activity
I was part of the group that got banned yesterday, and I need to apologize to you all.
I have seen people mention previously that sometimes mods take upvotes for agreement, but I haven't trained myself to stop the reddit habit of voting on "food for thought" things, useful-addition-to-the-conversation-but-not-my-pov posts, and placemarkers in active threads, and there aren't downvotes here to easily mark the shitty stuff I want to come back to and learn from. I should always be opening things in new tabs instead.
I foolishly upvoted this comment as a "food for thought" comment and planned to come back to the thread yesterday evening to find it and read the responses and learn from them. instead my upvote counted as agreement and got me banned, which I know is my fault for not adapting to site culture and not foreseeing how that would be interpreted.
I totally understand, feel like the worst kind of foo