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🐝bownage [they/he] @ bownage @beehaw.org

✨ 👋 Dutch queer person (they/he) | I like taking to people online

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  • I get what you're saying, and definitely to each their own.

    In this case I felt like it was people trying to spotlight queer history rather than the regular hetero stories we see all around us every day, and I think that is definitely meaningful.

  • I was in Edinburgh early june last year on honeymoon and me and my wife went to a special queer edition of the St Mary's close tour for pride :) . It was so fun and the tour guide was just so lovely!!

    Anyway at the end of the tour she told us that where the regular tours basically sell out every day, the they've never sold out a single timeslot for the pride edition in the years that they've been offering it.

    She was really happy we (8 visitors on a max group size of 20) were there at all. Definitely made me a little sad to hear.

    So yeah I'm happy to see this, the city definitely could use more gay shit

  • Ha, I love the typical runner attitude at the end.

    Would I do another? Well, it definitely sucked and it was awful, but maybe cause I could do better next time. 😅

    Personally after two half marathons I decided I really just much rather run 10k's instead. They're more fun and less hassle to train for, plus you can run faster so that's nice. But there's always that nagging feeling of wanting to prove to myself that I could technically complete a marathon if I wanted to, even though I don't want to.

  • Thanks for saying this, it does help ❤️

    I just find it hard to actually take action and not just feel cynical/disillusioned/unable to enact change, which is what I'm doing most of the time.

    Of course it helps to start small but I don't really seem to get any relief from what I do control. Sure it's nice knowing my friends would eat the billionaires with me but that won't actually change anything in the world cause we're all privileged enough to not feel threatened enough (privilege, baby) by the current state of the world to actually get off our asses.

    Which in turn makes me feel like I'm just a blob floating on the waves of a storm of someone else's design and it's not worth the effort to invest in myself and try to make myself grow as a person.

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    im so ready rule

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    shark rule

    Been having fun with emoji.supply/kitchen hehe

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    ruleleader

    currently obsessed :3

    Animals and Pets @beehaw.org
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    spicy leaf time

    He's in his vegan era

    Animals and Pets @beehaw.org
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    walkies are back on the menu

    Weather is good enough to take out little explorer around the block again. He had a great time but got a big fright from the garbage truck noises so we did need to carry him home.

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    lockerule

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    🦝 Rule

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    I have food poisoning rule

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    Men rule

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    Rule

    Animals and Pets @beehaw.org
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    Anyone else's cat really into cardboard boxes? I like to cut them into little houses and call them 'casa cardboard'.

    Nature and Gardening @beehaw.org
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    My edible plants are blossoming 🥰🏵️

    Indian cress / Garden Nasturtium

    Borage