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  • Yes. Return rate influences future product design.

  • There are several options. Sometimes they overlap:

    • Direct gain such as romantic opportunity from sabotaging a rival or items of value from theft. Some people are callous about the harm caused, while others rationalize it as necessary or justified.
    • Retribution or justice. Most people are happy to hear that a child molester will receive abuse from other prisoners, to give an example.
    • Sadism - direct satisfaction or pleasure from causing pain to others. This is unlikely to make much sense to those of us who aren't sadists, so it may have to be enough to just know it exists.

    Now consider politicians promising to harm some out group and people voting for them. It's a combination of the first two: the politicians attempt to gain elected office by convincing people that the out group is evil or dangerous and promising to do something about it. The voters believe these cruel actions to be justice done to vicious criminals.

  • And before you admonish and ridicule these people for not going to such and such website to get the truth etc.

    Clearly everyone who isn't getting their news from Lemmy is irresponsible!

    Sure, there are valid complaints about the media, but anyone who heard Trump say

    I just want to find 11,780 votes, which is one more than we have

    and still voted for him had everything they needed to know better, and who didn't hear that excerpt from the Raffensperger call?

  • For example, it feels like many people bind their identity to a cause so tightly that admitting any fault feels like a betrayal of the whole.

    That's exactly it in a lot of cases. More on that here:

    https://www.paulgraham.com/identity.html

  • How was anyone expecting the guy who openly tried to steal an election after losing to be anything but lawless?

  • Hibernation is, in fact fully powered off.

  • I see no betrayal here. He said what he was going to do, and the trees voted for the axe.

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  • They’re not in this sociocultural-religious equation as they’re not locals.

    I think you'll find the equation would not work if they were removed, so they must be a part of it.

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  • Most Western societies are much less explicitly based on religious scripture, though as others have noted negative attitudes toward polygamy may be rooted in Christianity. Some Western societies, such as the USA explicitly forbid establishing an official religion, but cultural norms are still based on the dominant religion.

    Modern ideas about equality in Western societies are not based on a religion, but on how people decided they want things to work. Until about 50 years ago, women did not have legal equality in many Western countries, and a single woman was often unable to open a bank account, rent an apartment, or get certain jobs. A social movement worked very hard to change both attitudes and laws, and now the majority belief is more or less equal = same.

    Qatari women are provided with household staff by their husbands to make their lives easier.

    How does this work for people who are not extremely wealthy, such as members of your household staff?

  • This one gets more complicated the longer I think about it.

    My first pass was to imagine humans just as we are aside from the ability to die. Many things about how humans are don't make sense without death though. Pain, for example likely evolved to cause organisms to avoid stimuli that could lead to their death. Fear largely derives from the anticipation of pain. Would true immortals have either? I imagine the psychology of such creatures would be vastly different from our own.

    There's also the question of what form the immortality takes. If it's possible to destroy someone's physical body, but their soul can immediately manifest a new one, and pain doesn't exist, then doing so is just an inconvenience. If bodies are impervious to any damage or alteration, a large category of crimes vanishes.

    It would probably come down to some sort of long-term imposition on the freedom of others, but it's really hard to guess what that would look like.

  • It's on a VPS. Whether that's really self-hosted may depend on how much of a purist you are, but it's fully self-managed, not SAAS.

    It's recommended to have a PTR record mapping your IP address to your domain, which you wouldn't be able to do with a residential connection from a typical ISP. I do send mail from multiple domains though and I haven't had issues with deliverability. What I do not send is any kind of high-volume mail, which would likely attract a different kind of scrutiny.

  • For example it is terribly difficult to self host email, and very few people actually do it.

    I read this a bunch of times and put off trying it because it sounded like such a hassle. Eventually I did and... it wasn't bad at all. I just had to add a few extra DNS entries. I haven't had any delivery problems.

  • Sort of. This is apparently done on-protocol so anyone can issue verifications, but they're only shown in the official client if they're from BlueSky or someone approved by BlueSky.

    A better way to do this would be to let users subscribe to verifiers the way they can labelers. Better still would be for the label to indicate what the verifier has verified about the account, like "nytimes.com says this person is an employee of the New York Times", which is something labelers can already do.

    So I really think they should have just leaned into labelers.

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  • The thing about this age range is there are a bunch of social changes people go through. Some of them are automatic at a specific age, like being able to legally buy alcohol. Others may not happen at quite the same age, like getting a driver's license, graduating high school, or moving out of the parents' house.

    I suggest some introspection to be sure she likes you for you more than for social advantages you might have, and to check local laws to make sure a sexual relationship isn't illegal. Other than that, the half your age plus seven rule of thumb others have mentioned seems pretty reasonable to me.

  • It appears to depend on Bluesky designating entities to do the verification.

  • If it harmed an innocent, probably. If it harmed a government, corporation, or detestable person, no.

  • I think the existing domain-based verification system is a better way of doing that. Something like Mastodon's verified links might be a nice addition. This more centralized system is... not what I hoped for.

  • Instagram and Tiktok are usable in a web browser, though they do want you to make an account.

  • flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    New: Skilhunt M200 v4, now with a choice of high-output (TN), high-throw (SFT25R), or high-CRI (519A)

    flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    New: Skilhunt M200 v4, now with a choice of high-output (TN), high-throw (SFT25R), or high-CRI (519A)

  • Terms like "safe" and "private" are not binary.

    Are the contents of your Signal conversations on an iPhone private with regard to mass surveillance conducted by governments and ISPs? Probably. Apple uses security and privacy as marketing points, and there are a whole lot of people looking for vulnerabilities in its products who are incentivized to disclose them (possibly with a delay for patches). Signal itself takes steps to prevent data leaks to less secure parts of the OS and other apps.

    Would your conversations remain private in the face of a targeted attack against your device by a nation state willing to spend a significant amount of time and money when you're using Signal on an iPhone that's presumably used for purposes other than secure conversations with a small set of people you know? Almost certainly not.

  • Privacy @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Recommend a VPN with residential exit IPs

    Some friends have safety concerns that mean they need to appear digitally as if they're inside the USA while being elsewhere physically. Standard commercial VPNs are easy to detect (else I'd recommend Mullvad), so they need an option that looks like a residential connection.

    They could potentially DIY it by leaving a VPN server at a relative's house, but I'm asking here for subscription services. It's best if they have a Mac OS app that's foolproof, with a clear visual indication that it's in use, and a feature to block traffic if the VPN is disconnected.

    tl;dr: what's the closest residential VPN to Mullvad?

    flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Giveaway: 3000K Acebeam T35 for 3000 members

    In honor of !flashlight@lemmy.world reaching 3000 members (yes, I know that was a couple weeks ago), I'm giving away this Acebeam T35 swapped to a 3000 Kelvin, 95 CRI Luminus SFT40. While not as bright as the original 5000K, low-CRI LED, it's sure to satisfy anyone who misses the incandescent look, but likes LED power.

    Only accounts that have made a post or comment to !flashlight@lemmy.world prior to this post may enter. You should have a shipping address in the USA or EU, which can be a package forwarding company if necessary. Entry ends on Februrary 14 2025 at 20:00 UTC.

    To enter, leave a top level comment on this post. I will select the winning entry using a random number generator next Friday.

    Technology @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Right to Root Access

    medhir.com right to root access

    right to repair laws should include provisions requiring manufacturers to unlock a device's bootloader (to provide root access) upon consumer request.

    right to root access
    Fediverse @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Is it currently possible to completely self-host ATProto and interact with BlueSky users?

    I don't actually want to do this right now, but I do want to know if it's really decentralized yet. Completely looks like it means each of:

    • A client ✅
    • A personal data server ✅
    • A relay ❓
    • Labelers ✅
    • Feed generators ✅

    It looks like the relay might be the bottleneck. If I'm understanding the protocol correctly, a relay could consume less than the whole network so it doesn't have to be ridiculously expensive to operate, but I'm not finding examples of people doing it.

    Everyday Carry. What essentials do you carry on a daily basis? @sopuli.xyz
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Election day carry

    I fear if I carry anything else today, I'll lose it or cut myself with it.

    Everyday Carry. What essentials do you carry on a daily basis? @sopuli.xyz
    Zak @lemmy.world

    EDC just came up in another community, so it's time for a pocket dump

    • Old leather wallet
    • Flashlight (Skilhunt H150)
    • Knife (Spyderco UKPK)
    • Pepper spray (Sabre Red, with a pocket clip from a random flashlight)
    • Phone (Pixel 4A)
    • Keys, and another flashlight (Skilhunt EK1)
    • Flash drive (Sandisk 128gb)
    • 1.38€
    flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    The HP35R, a new heavy-duty headlamp from Fenix uses 2x21700 batteries and runs at 1200 lumens all night

    www.fenixlight.com HP35R

    Spot-and-floodlight delivers a max output of 4000 lumens and high CRI floodlight delivers a max output of 1200 lumens. 450 meters extended beam distance for the lighting needs in searching, ...

    Selfhosted @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Recommend a server-side email classifier

    I've been self-hosting email with Maddy for a bit, but haven't shared any of the addresses widely yet in part because I haven't set up a spam filter. I'm pleased with Maddy; there's much less to learn to get a server up and running with sane default behavior than with the email software of old.

    Ideally, I'd like to go beyond just spam filtering and have something with arbitrary categories like newsletters and password resets. I would prefer that it learn categories when I move messages to IMAP folders from a mail client. Maddy can feed messages into arbitrary programs and pick a destination folder based on their output.

    Web searches turn up a ton of classification programs, most of which seem to be more interested in playing accuracy golf with well-known corpora than expanding functionality beyond simple spam filtering.

    Lemmy.world Support @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Please stop blocking VPNs for established accounts

    I often use a commercial VPN service, which I suspect is not rare among Lemmy users. Most of the time, I'm able to post to lemmy.world, but on occasion I am not. The default web UI provides zero feedback, just a spinning submit button forever, but if I look in the browser dev tools, I can see it's being blocked.

    I understand that some limitations are necessary to prevent spam and other abuse, however this is a very blunt instrument. The fact that I have a 10 month old account with consistent activity should outweigh any IP address reputation issues.

    Perhaps the VPN limitations could be narrowed in scope to cover only account creation and posts from young accounts.

    flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Anduril firmware adds dark mode

    Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    What RSS readers should I recommend to others?

    If I want to quickly pitch "you should follow X, Y, and Z using RSS because [problems with social media]" to people who have never heard of RSS, what readers should I recommend?

    I want at least web (not self-hosted), Android, and iOS options. Native apps for Mac and Windows would be nice as well. Linux users probably already know what RSS is.

    There absolutely must be a free option good for at least 25 feeds because unfamiliar tech is a hard enough sell without having to pay. I'll grudgingly accept ads if that's the tradeoff for something beginner-friendly.

    Lemmy.world Support @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Image uploads blocked by Cloudflare

    When I attempt to upload images to lemmy.world via the desktop web UI, I get the following error message:

    SyntaxError: JSON.parse: unexpected character at line 1 column 1 of the JSON data

    Looking at network traffic in dev tools, I see that I'm getting a 403 page from Cloudflare saying:

    Sorry, you have been blocked You are unable to access lemmy.world Why have I been blocked? This website is using a security service to protect itself from online attacks....

    I also get error messages when trying to upload images using Connect and Sync on an Android device. I successfully uploaded images in the past.

    flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    2000 subscriber giveaway

    We just hit 2000 subscribers! I’d like to thank everyone for showing up here to create a new community, and what better way than giving stuff away?

    I’m giving away the Nitecore MH10 v2 I reviewed. I can ship it anywhere in the USA or EU, but EU winners will have to wait until mid September. This is a basic, beginner-friendly flashlight that can accept almost all 18650 and 21700 batteries.

    To enter, leave a top-level comment on this post before midnight UTC on Sunday, August 27, 2023. Only accounts that have posted or commented on /c/flashlight prior to this being posted are eligible to win.

    flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Kaidomain has 3000K high-CRI SFT40s

    Everyday Carry. What essentials do you carry on a daily basis? @sopuli.xyz
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Today's knife and light

    • Skilhunt M150 v2 (519A swap)
    • Kershaw Launch 5
    Selfhosted @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Webpack hashing problems after Mastodon server update

    I just updated my Mastodon server to the latest version due to a security vulnerability. I got a 500 page and error:0308010C:digital envelope routines::unsupported in the logs from mastodon-web.

    I could reproduce by running bin/webpack from the command line. Some searching led me to try Node 16 LTS, but then I get an apparently blank page when I load the site and call to eval() blocked by CSP in the browser console.

    The API works normally; this only affects the website.

    knives @sopuli.xyz
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Does the hard-use folder I want exist?

    I want a folding knife that can get away with most most of the things I know better than to do with a folding knife. That leads to specific criteria:

    • Price: under $100, lower is better. I might break it.
    • Lock: crossbar, backlock, compression, or something similarly strong. Not liner/frame/button. I might want to trust the lock more than is prudent.
    • Steel: tough stainless like AEB-L, 14C28N, or Nitro-V. I might baton through salt-driftwood with it and put it away wet. See toughness chart.
    • Blade: Ideally 3.25-2.5" (85-90mm) and a tip that isn't dainty. I might pry with it.
    • Pivot: washers, not bearings. I might get mud in it.
    • I dislike thumbstuds, but will accept them if they're not in the cutting path.
    flashlight @lemmy.world
    Zak @lemmy.world

    Update: Olight paid me

    Less than 24 hours after yesterday's post, an Olight rep got in touch by email. A few hours after that, they sent the full payment.