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How many people are only still alive because they don't want their suicide hurting others as much as they hurt every day?

  • I'm familiar with the feeling, but luckily not in that state right now.

    Idk that there's much advice to help you. TBH, nothing anyone says when I'm in your current thought space (or rather my version of it) ever helps. The only consistent thing that helps me is time.

    I guess I could recommend giving medication a try if you haven't.

    The other thing that might help is checking yourself into a psychiatric hospital. At one of my lowest points, I just wanted to walk into traffic; it was all I could think about. My therapist recommended I get evaluated at a local psychiatric hospital and they suggested I stay for a week, and I agreed. Mostly, they kept me safe from myself while time passed and I processed through my feelings. I also had some imbalances that needed medicinal correction. And, when everything was said and done, I didn't have to pay a dime - and my insurance sucks ass.

    Anyway. I know you can't feel it, but everyone is pulling for you. Stay with us. 🫶

    • What task would you excel in if you lived in the Stone Age?

  • Dying from allergies & asthma.

    While still living, the tribe could deploy me as an animal detector: place me at the front of hunting parties, and the moment I start sneezing & wheezing, they know they've got prey nearby.

    • how do I avoid becoming conformist, lazy and completely incapable of learning something new?

  • Be curious and keep learning. Doesn't matter what you study.

    Don't allow yourself to believe age or experience makes you superior to others. Seems like that might be a generational mindset, but purposely avoid it.

    I worked with people at Disney World for an internship who had been in the same position I was for 30+ years. They were happy with this, but it terrified me; I did not want to be a fast food or retail worker for my whole life.

    • My friend keeps defending my dad, what should I do?

  • I'd be concerned that she's been conditioned to believe such things in her home life as normal. No joke, congrats to you for recognizing the abuse you're going through. It's tough to spot and name it, let alone talk about it to others. Great first steps on your part. For your friend, it sounds like she's going through or has gone through something.

    I'd suggest talking with a trusted adult, any trusted adult about this. They're going to give you better perspective and, more importantly, assistance with your situation, which is absolutely not ok.

    For your friend, I can think of 2 responses:

    1. Ask her if she's been abused and conditioned to think that abuse is ok. Tell her that abuse isn't ok, and that if she's been abused, she needs to talk to someone about that, like a trusted authority figure.
    2. If this is a "debate me, bro" situation, there are endless resources that prove that victims of abuse are, indeed, victims. In other words, abuse doesn't strengthen anyone in the relationship; it weakens the victim through abuse and trauma. You can find all sorts of studies on any angle you'd like to pursue.