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FollyDolly

Hello I am new, confused and excited about Lemmy! I like the vibes.

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  • Yeah, where do these guys find the energy!?? All me and husband did for our anniversary was lay around together because we were too tired to go out and this man had THREE wives!??

  • Right!? Like oh baby I am wearing cat fur covered leggings, mismatched socks and a men's long sleeve shirt.

  • It depends, because if the car breaks down, you will need parts to fix it. Hopefully parts you can get off another car of similar make. Also older cars can use universal parts, newer cars are more heavily proprietary, so electric may not be the way to go for longterm use.

  • Right!? We literally have a store called Banana Republic.

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  • Aw fuck you're right, my brain glossed right over that for some damn reason. Sorry, I fucked up.

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  • So wait, you guys sleep in separate rooms but you still need to go to bed at the same time? And you can't even wash the dishes becuase it's too loud? At 9:30pm at night? This is just not acceptable. So one change in your working hours to a later time would implode everything? Your man needs a white noise machine, or ear plugs. If he can't sleep through another person doing the dishes in another room, that's a him problem.

    I have lots of Autistic and ADHD friends. Yes, we can be loud without meaning to, but I doubt even my noises ADHD friend would stop me from being able to sleep by hand washing the dishes. Whatever you do, whatever happens NEVER EVER NEVER have a child with this man. He will implode and you will be charged with the horrible crime of having the baby make noise at night when he is SleEpInG. How you to have a dog is beyond me. Does she never make noise at night?

  • I can second From Surviving to Thriving by Walker. That book helped me a lot. It really opened my eyes to how many things in my life were just leftover trauma responses.

  • I'd rather die in a shoot out with ICE than go to a death camp. I don't leave the house now without my concealed carry.

  • RFK already floated the idea of work camps for autistic and ADHD kids.

  • Yep a totally normal thing to do. Like leaving your toothbrush behind when traveling, except it's barrels and barrels of human waste. Probably didn't even see them tucked away next to the sink.

  • I need this power.

  • So did you ever zerk off the nipples?

  • Agreed. Reminds me I need to replace some of my garden fence posts, the deer keep getting in where the fence is sagging.

  • Actully it was this advice that kept me from getting in bad situation!

  • I always wonder how they couldn't see this coming. It's not like Trump lied about any of this. He made it quite clear he wanted mass deportations, and now it's happening and poeple are surprised!?

  • My tiny ass town had seventy people show up, including me. Never seen anything like it.

  • I can get behind the Kindness Rebellion.

  • I have kept my kitchen oregano plant alive for five years now. Every other house plant I have attempted to own has died on me, but at least me and ol' Regano are doing okay.

  • "Never go to a secondary location." This has been surprisingly helpful.

  • Or buy a used copy, which is what I did. Physical media for life!

  • Autism @lemmy.world
    FollyDolly @lemmy.world

    Does anyone else have a limtied amount of feelings per set time period?

    I have what I call the Feeling Things Meter. Meaning that in a certain period of time, about one to three days, I have a set amount of feelings I am allowed to feel. If I exceed the number of feelings and fill up the meter I blank out and get to feel nothing at all. I can feel the Meter filling up, and I know when I am about to exceed it.

    This also applies to feelings from movies, shows, games books and music. So I have to carefully plan out my entertainment around life events as best I can.

    As you can imagine it becomes incredibly hard to navigate adult life with no feelings. And not just the big feelings but the little ones too. No drive to go out and do the shopping. No satisfaction of completeing a task. No disappointment if I screw something up. Nothing.

    No one else in my life has this, or anything close to it. Most people look at me like I'm a crazy person when I try to explain it. I'm always making excuses for not wanting to watch movies or shows with friends, or bailing w

    Jerboa @lemmy.ml
    FollyDolly @lemmy.world

    Is there any way to have Youtube links open in browser instead of the Youtube app?

    Basically the title. I hate the ad ridden offical Youtube app and would prefer to have it open in Firefox or some other browser. Is this possible? Is there a setting I missed? If it's not possible right now can it be possible in the future?

    Also I love Jerboa, perfect replacement for RIF, been very happy with it so far, much love!