Part of the problem is that lemmy doesn't really let me set a thumbnail, so first frame of the video is what people see. If it's 10 minutes, and the first 30s are setup / intro, most people click away without seeing where it's going. 🤷♀️ (at least I imagine it's part of the problem, not like I have analytics to prove it)
1/2 cup water 1tbsp cornstarch 1 (or 1/2) egg white A little bit (~tsp) of something white. Sour cream, yogurt, nondairy creamer, whatever)
Dissolve corn starch in a little bit of water, then add the rest. Bring to a simmer until it thickens, then let it cool down. Once cool, add egg white and color.
I have a couple of times. Rare though; mostly seems to involve a partner who won't stop using the vibe on me even though I'm having trouble cumming. :3
It's not so much the idea - I think the idea is kinda silly. "You cum you lose?" Dude, that is literally my goal. But the techno beats, plus visual stimulation, plus an additional thing to draw/hold my attention works well for me.
It varies a lot based on the video - some are, in fact, just annoying. Mostly those that vary the beat too much, try to make you follow complicated patterns, etc. Also just the general quality, music and visual selection varies immensely. A poorly done one is worse than useless. So if the idea seems good but you're not liking it... might be worth browsing around a bit, try a variety of composers.
Also depends on mood; I wouldn't start an evening with one. Have to already be turned on and ready to gogogo, if you know what I mean.
You can subscribe to people on lemmy from mastodon (paste lemmynsfw.com/u/BlueWindsBreeze in your instance's search bar), but yeah, can't do it directly here. 🤷♀️
Hm. Wish my phone weren't such a potato, video looks grainy no matter what I try. Also lemmy seems to scale up the video to 100% width even if it's lower resolution.
Oh well, I shall leave it here regardless even if the result isn't something I'm super happy with.
Part of the problem is that lemmy doesn't really let me set a thumbnail, so first frame of the video is what people see. If it's 10 minutes, and the first 30s are setup / intro, most people click away without seeing where it's going. 🤷♀️ (at least I imagine it's part of the problem, not like I have analytics to prove it)