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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/latinaweakness on 2023-10-07 03:58:37.

Ok does this make any sense? So recently me and the guy I’m sleeping with currently were talking about our sex, He asked me what he could do better and when I told him I prefer teasing with the tip to start,then slow half way strokes and the more aroused I get start stroking deeper and harder,

He said I thought that’s what I do,and he kind of does except when it come to the deeper and harder part,even when I feel I want it it harder I actually mean long deep strokes and when he bottoms out push on me harder,

But instead every time I say harder he just starts pounding and it actually turns me off, I’m not into hard pounding or the rabbit sex

I like strong hard deep stro

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/sam64228 on 2023-10-07 02:14:38.

It's weird how this is what bothers my girlfriend, but here we go.

My girlfriend has a fetish with cum, and when we talked about me getting a vasectomy, she was okay with me getting it, we both don't want kids, but her only worry was that if I did it, would it come out watery, or less thick? And I don't know what to answer because I fr don't know what happens.

It's not important enough to turn her against my decision, but I also wanted to know: Peoplo who have had a vasectomy, does something about your sperm changes?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/ilovecookiesssssssss on 2023-10-06 23:49:41.

I was thinking about it today, and just curious what guys think. I have an incredibly sensitive gag reflex - I’ll gag from certain smells, visuals, even just the idea of something can make me gag. Would you rather someone power through the gagging to deep throat you, or just avoid it all together if she can’t get through it without gagging?

I know I don’t need to deep throat the entire time, or even a majority of the time, to give good head. But I’m just curious if the sound/visualization of gagging is disruptive during a BJ.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Baby-Morgana on 2023-10-07 02:06:39.

I’m just curious. Some people say it’s amazing but most people tell me it’s not all that.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Elvis158 on 2023-10-06 22:55:32.

My boyfriend and I have been together around 7 months. We find each other attractive and get along so well. However, he seems to get a boner even when we kiss lightly, and when things get steamy there’s always pre-cum. He gets super embarrassed but I thought this meant he was super turned on? What’s the reason for this? Is it bad?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/AssociationFormer179 on 2023-10-06 16:48:48.

To me it seems like the overwhelming preference for women in the bedroom is to be "dominated." From talking with partners over time they have said roughly the same things, they like the feeling of being desired, they like the raw nature of it, they like feeling "small" or "overpowered", etc. The thing is though, this totally ruins sex for me and turns me off completely. I don't get off at all on dominating my partner, and so what this normally means to me is that its boring and a lot of extra physical exertion without much reciprocation. In fact, I find it to be the opposite power-dynamic, its me doing all the work to please them but I don't get anything in return

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Zealousideal-Cut689 on 2023-10-06 13:26:00.

Hi, I have an unusual problem. I'm almost 20 years old, my girlfriend is 18. We've been in a relationship for two years. Last month we managed to move together, which of course also allows us to have sex more often. And everything would be great, but... yup. When I cum, I shoot quite a lot, which really bothers my girlfriend. She says it's kinda gross and she doesn't want to be covered in it everytime we're making love. Regardless of whether I cum inside her or on her. She's on the pills, so we don't use condoms. Recently I've started cumming on a towel, but it's not the most comfortable method. Any ways to reduce sperm amount? Masturbating before is not an option :,(

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Prestigious_Rain5243 on 2023-10-06 15:10:12.

So recently I gave my boyfriend the vacuum seal bj: like during BJ you suck up his dick like a vacuum, like sucking a drink through a straw but more intense and I did this with handjob combo. He was moaning so loud while twitching and curling his toes. He came so hard, while he was cuming , I kept sucking harder and he kept jerking all through. It was hot for me seeing him like this and being able to please him. This was my first time trying this method both with him or anybody for that matter.

Men what’s your experience like with this type of bj ? Do you enjoy this ? Or it’s rather too intense?

Edit: there was a mix of edging, deep throat, I started off wit

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/ilovechickenstew on 2023-10-06 12:31:28.

Been seeing a guy for 1.5 months. We are not officially in a relationship but we have been seeing each other a lot and I really like him and can see us being in a relationship.

He had trouble getting / staying hard the first time we had sex. After that sex has been amazing. I thought it was performance anxiety so didn’t think much of it.

One day I asked him how I can make him come cos we have had sex quite a few times now and he only came twice in total. I wish I hadn’t asked cos that led to him telling me he has ED and is taking medication.

I am fully aware that it’s a medical issue like any other and I feel sympathy for whoever taking meds for it. I just don’t kn

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Alert_Table4866 on 2023-10-06 12:42:45.

My (27f) boyfriend (24m) have been intimate multiple times, and every time he lasts for over 3 hours without ejaculating. When I asked him how long it takes him to come if he does it himself(hand job), he mentioned it takes him around 45 minutes. Every time we had sex, he never came. This is something I've never encountered with anyone else I've been with.

While I know he's attracted to me both physically and emotionally, I can't help but feel like I've somehow failed when he can't ejaculate during our intimate moments. For me, when a partner ejaculates, it feels like a compliment or a reward.

I've reassured him that I have no issue if he ejaculates quickly, quite the opposite, but he insists

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Bruh1455433 on 2023-10-06 13:14:47.

So, I’ve woken up to her masturbating twice while I was sleeping. I used that as an opportunity to try to get intimate with her and I do (we’re both women). Well it happened a third time, despite me letting her know the past few days that I wanted to receive. Two nights ago we had sex and I received but it felt like I had to drop a bunch of hints and practically beg.

Well, last night we were up until midnight. She wasn’t showing much physical interest. She did try to kiss me extra before bed but that’s the length of it. We laid in bed and I let her know that I would be going to sleep (since she didn’t make any moves). As soon as I closed my eyes and decided to sleep she started

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Super-Performer7518 on 2023-10-05 21:27:59.

So this is mortifying. I’ve talked about this with a few close friends but they were exceedingly unhelpful. I’d rather die than talk about it with literally anyone else so I come to the sweet anonymity of the internet for advice.

I possess a vagina. And I have sex with people equipped with penises. Unfortunately, anytime anything is inserted into my aforementioned vagina I feel like I’m about to poop. Doesn’t matter the size of the penis, doesn’t matter the tempo, rhythm and it happens in most positions. With fingers too.

I’ve tried going to the bathroom before hand and still felt that way. And then when I go to the bathroom afterwards it magically stops. Th

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/pervertedlittlebro on 2023-10-05 23:19:34.

I caved and today, I acquired the services of an escort. Feel free to say I'm a coward for not forging a relationship with someone and not doing it the proper way.

Regardless, I arrived at her place and we got stripped, she put the condom on and she gave me oral. Which was actually rather nice. Then she climbed on top and proceeded to ride me.

All I felt was my cock being squished really. None of that euphoria I'm told you feel when you're inside someone. I switched to missionary, I was thrusting like you're supposed to and, nothing.

When it was time to wrap up, she was trying to make me cum but.. I couldn't. Being anxious means I couldn't be fully erect I suppose. It

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/monkey_lover96 on 2023-10-06 02:00:47.

So i really dislike the way my boobs look when im on my back, i cant stand the thought of a guy looking at them when they look like that. Do you have any tips to make them stop just falling to the side and making it look like there is a huge gap between them?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Ok-Mix-1078 on 2023-10-05 22:50:50.

Me (22f) and my boyfriend(22m) have been together for almost two years. He’s asked for anal since we got together every couple of months which didn’t bother me, but the last 3ish months he’s been asking very frequently. I’m not completely against the idea but I don’t want to try it at this point of my life and I’ve told him that multiple times. I want to be more confident in my own body first and process the sexual trauma I’ve experienced as a kid first, AND I want to do it the right way. Any kind of pain during sex immediately makes me freak out a bit. I’ve told him to stop asking me when we’re having sex or when I’m drunk. Last night we were both drunk and having really fun sex when he asked if

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Complex-Meaning-9166 on 2023-10-05 22:32:38.

What do you use to clean your semen? A towel you wash every two weeks? A roll of paper towels? Just curious.

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Marco_Polo_NY on 2023-10-05 16:30:54.

I’m (48m) and my girlfriend (51f) I think she’s absolutely amazing inside and out. She has a amazing personality and a stunning body. This issue is she only wants to have sex in the missionary position. We’ve been together for almost a year, and the missionary position is getting really old. I have tried talking to her once before, and she reminded me of how her ex used to treat her. I told her that I love her, and I respect her, and I have always treated her like a lady and that will never change.

Last night after dinner, I brought up the subject again. I was very polite and talked in a soft tone of voice. I explain to her that I have a lot more sexual desires, and I want them to be fulfi

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/SufficientFalcon4827 on 2023-10-05 12:43:07.

My (23f) boyfriend (22m) have only been going out for a few months. We were both virgins when we met, but I have more experience than he has. He hasn’t done anything with anyone else before. So when we started doing activities like hand jobs or blow jobs I thought it might be a bit quicker, however I realized it would go on for 40mins-2hours until I eventually would just give up, and he would get himself off. I felt really bummed I couldn’t get him off, but he suggested that it might be because we aren’t doing anything penetrative. I have issues with penetration so it’s harder for me to do, but this motivated me to hopefully get over it. We eventually were able to have penetrative sex,

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Academic-Bee-5420 on 2023-10-05 16:38:23.

I used to do this with my last partner and he seemed to like it, but he is also the kind of eccentric and he likes to be babied a little.

I’m with someone new right now and I might try this on him eventually. Usually I keep cleansing wipes on hand and after sex I’d gently clean off his junk. It’s an intimacy thing for me. I’m asking, partly, to see how comfortable guys would be with this. But I’m also asking to gauge how sensitive things are afterwards. Also does that sensitivity apply to any kind of maneuvering with the balls. Would this be too overstimulating?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/LifeAd7593 on 2023-10-05 02:21:34.

My bf and I (both 35) have only had sex 3 times in the 3 months we’ve been dating. The first time we slept together, it was great. However, it’s come to the point where he won’t try to initiate intimacy at all. Instead, he basically just puts his dick in my face for a BJ… no romancing, no foreplay, nothing. And he almost never finishes even when I do everything I can to get him off (even going up to an hour) but at the end, he will roll over, finish himself off with his hand, and then go to sleep without any attempts to satisfy me in any way. Day after day. Then I will hear him jerking off all night long, even in his sleep. He says he jerks off multiple times a day and he’s so used