A space for masculine folks to talk about living under patriarchy.

Detoxing masculinity since 1990!

You don’t get points for feminism, feminism is expected.

Guidelines:

1. Questions over blame
2. Humility over pride
3. Wisdom over dogma
4. Actions over image

Rules (expansions on the guidelines):

1. Mistakes should be learning experiences when possible.
   • Do not attack comrades displaying vulnerability for what they acknowledge are mistakes.
   • If you see good-faith behavior that's toxic, do your best to explain why it's toxic.
   • If you don't have the energy to engage, report and move on.
   • This includes past mistakes. If you've overcome extreme reactionary behavior, we'd love to know how.
   • A widened range of acceptable discussion means a greater need for sensitivity and patience for your comrades.
   • Examples:
     • "This is reactionary. Here's why."
     • "I know that {reality}, but I feel like {toxicity}"
     • "I don't understand why