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childfree @lemmy.world Jim East @slrpnk.net Breaking the Cycle: Unveiling How Childhood Trauma Fuels Parenting and Abuse.
cross-posted from: https://mander.xyz/post/28051610
Childhood maltreatment often continues from one generation to the next, perpetuating the cycle of abuse and depression. In a bid to promote healthier parent-child relationships, researchers from the University of Fukui compared mothers who engaged in maltreatment with those who did not, revealing that childhood trauma increases emotional empathy and depressive symptoms, raising the risk of abusive parenting. Their findings highlight the need for mental health support and parenting programs to help break this cycle.
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childfree @lemmy.world return2ozma @lemmy.world www.nbcnews.com Chappell Roan says she doesn’t know any happy parents — is she wrong?“I have literally not met anyone who is happy, anyone who has light in their eyes, anyone who has slept," the singer told Alex Cooper on the latest "Call Her Daddy" podcast episode.
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childfree @lemmy.world Hanrahan @slrpnk.net Latin American women opt against motherhood, defying pressure for higher birth rate
www.bangkokpost.com Latin American women opt against motherhood, defying pressure for higher birth ratesA growing number of Latin American women are choosing not to give birth in a radical departure from the traditional family roles that have long dominated in the region. - REUTERS
A growing number of Latin American women are choosing not to give birth in a radical departure from the traditional family roles that have long dominated in the region. -
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childfree @lemmy.world EtnaAtsume @lemmy.world Kids!
I don't have any, I don't want any. But I work with them as part of my job, sometimes all the way down to babies, and damn if I don't love 'em all the same.
I guess it's just nice to have the best of both worlds: the freedom of childfree life and the benefit of being able to play with them, because they are genuinely adorable and fun.
(I realize people probably don't care; I'm mostly posting to post in the name of generating more fediverse content)
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childfree @lemmy.world Scrubbles @poptalk.scrubbles.tech Children people don't hate all parents. But I may loathe this one.
slate.com I Let My Little Kids Run Wild in Public. Join Me!We’ve all gotten a little bit too afraid to let children be children.
cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/58875792
Holy shit, talk about everything people hate about Americans wrapped into a single person. Zero empathy for other people around her, so selfish that she twists herself into thinking she's right, and worse tries to gaslight the reader into thinking they're wrong for ever thinking about other people or respect.
It reminds me of the first time I was in DC. I visited the WW2 memorial and it was one of the first times it hit me, I had multiple family members in the war, and I was walking around to the states. Serene. Peaceful, reflecting. Then a family came by and two kids got in the pool. And worse the family laughed and started taking pictures. One of the most disrespectful things I've ever seen, just spitting in the face of the people who had died.
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childfree @lemmy.world Djfok43 @lemmy.world Help with evil neighbours
Basically they're completely miserable and evil. Their life revolves around annoying me, and they both stay at home all day. I think the husband might work from home but honestly, could be that neither works at all.
I don't have a problem with this except for the fact that when I had a work from home customer service position I had to quit because they wouldn't stop banging crap and having nervous breakdowns cause I guess they couldn't stand hearing my voice. Not to mention it literally sounds like a zoo 24/7, I've never met more unhinged children and I think something is actually mentally wrong with them. They will both cry at least 20 times a day, literally screetching and they sound MISERABLE, it's not shrieks of joy.
Moving is NOT an option (long story). I haven't slept in literal years, their children both literally SCREAM at the top of their lungs in the middle of the night regularly too. If they don't wake me up, their parents slamming the doors full force do. It's honestly t
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childfree @lemmy.world Hanrahan @slrpnk.net Everyone asks me about my plans for having children. A nest of noisy miner birds has taught me how to respond
www.theguardian.com Everyone asks me about my plans for having children. A nest of noisy miner birds has taught me how to respond | Joseph EarpDeciding to be childless does not mean living in a world entirely without children, or without the act of shepherding
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childfree @lemmy.world Hanrahan @slrpnk.net www.ft.com Germany joins EU’s ‘ultra-low’ fertility clubEurope’s most populous country sees fertility rates fall below crucial threshold of 1.4
Good news! Article is paywalled but
https://archive.md/CWwUB (archived link)
Three more EU member states — including the most populous, Germany — have joined the list of countries with “ultra-low” fertility rates, highlighting the extent of the region’s demographic challenges.
Official statistics show Germany’s birth rate fell to 1.35 children per woman in 2023, below the UN’s “ultra-low” threshold of 1.4 — characterising a scenario where falling birth rates become tough to reverse.
Estonia and Austria also passed under the 1.4 threshold, joining the nine EU countries — including Spain, Greece and Italy — that in 2022 had fertility rates below 1.4 children per woman.
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childfree @lemmy.world Hanrahan @slrpnk.net More men without kids are getting vasectomies, doctors say
cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/29563625
In over 30 years of practice, Dr. Errol Billinkoff rarely saw a man without kids come into his Winnipeg clinic to get a vasectomy. But since the pandemic began, he says it's become an almost daily occurrence.
And he's not alone.
"At first, I thought I was the only one who was noticing this," Billinkoff, who brought a no-scalpel vasectomy procedure to Winnipeg in the early 1990s, told CBC News in a November interview.
"But I am part of an international chat group where doctors who do vasectomies participate and the topic came up, and it's like everybody notices it."
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childfree @lemmy.world Hanrahan @slrpnk.net Russian Lawmakers Pass Bill Banning ‘Childfree Propaganda’ -
www.themoscowtimes.com Russian Lawmakers Pass Bill Banning ‘Childfree Propaganda’ - The Moscow TimesRussian lawmakers on Tuesday passed a controversial bill outlawing so-called “childfree propaganda,” as authorities ramp up efforts to both increase birth rates and promote “traditional values” among families.
Welp, will they come after this Lemmy sub? /s
Following on from this post
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childfree @lemmy.world Scrubbles @poptalk.scrubbles.tech Anna Kendrick Opens Up About Her Choosing Not to Have Children
people.com Anna Kendrick Opens Up About Her Choosing Not to Have Children: 'I'm the Childless Cat Lady'Anna Kendrick is opening up about her thoughts on having kids in the future.
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childfree @lemmy.world Hanrahan @slrpnk.net www.theguardian.com Russia seeks to ban ‘propaganda’ promoting childfree lifestylesPeople could face fines of up to 400,000 rubles, as data suggests birthrate has slid to lowest level in quarter of a century

Raising a child in the U.S. costs hundreds of thousands of dollars. Many younger Americans say they can't afford it.

Reframing how we talk about having kids or not.

The language used around having children or not shapes societal views, highlighting the need for inclusive terms to respect all reproductive choices. The debate over falling birth rates has taken centre stage worldwide, with some people vilifying those who choose to not have children. The debate ove...

I don't always love his videos, but this one hits home.
I'm childfree for many reasons, but there are so many obvious ones - no one should be wondering why millennials are choosing not to have kids.