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  • Genderfluid trans guy here, I see a lot of my kid self in this. As a kid, I didn’t feel a specific gender or have the words to express that, but I had feelings. I’ve been told “you’re a girl and/so you must do XYZ” but some days, I wanted to be seen as a boy too. I wanted to wear baggy men’s clothes and cut my hair. Some days, I don’t feel like either gender. After all, I’m just me. And you’re just you.

    Also, I’d agree with another commenter I saw that cis people don’t usually question being cis. I won’t label you, though, that’s for you to decide but I’d say you do fit under the trans umbrella

  • Is PieFed Reddit too?

  • Thank you!!!

  • You're not crazy, it's real

  • I believe I found it in the first movie where Fester is asleep and Thing is on him and Gomez is staring down at them and takes Thing off him and Fester wakes up.

  • Me too!

  • That's weird that I remember them watching fester sleep

  • Yeah, I don't think she actually wants to be your friend. I recommend the song "I'm Looking Through You" by The Beatles.

    "I'm looking through you, where did you go I thought I knew you, what did I know You don't look different, but you have changed I'm looking through you, you're not the same

    Why, tell me why, did you not treat me right? Love has a nasty habit of disappearing overnight"

  • Yes, most likely. What exactly was she saying to them? She could have been joking, but to not flirt with your own partner shows she was not attracted to you, probably.

  • In other words, she may care for you in a general sense, but not a personal one, if you get it.

  • Awww, sorry to hear. I think Sophie just needs some time but either wants to be friends or is unsure. Give her space, which you seem to be doing, but also be kind to her.

    Honestly? She might care and be a kind person but doesn't want to be friends if that makes sense.

  • ahhh, ok. i'm definitely omni then.

  • Ciao! Parlo anche italiano :)

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  • Sorry, is this your ex-girlfriend you were talking about who was bullying your friend or whatever? Or just in general? Anyway, she probably needs an outlet for her pain if she was bullied but it doesn’t excuse her behavior in any way.

  • On one hand, maybe y’all need some time. On the other, you kinda are bad for ghosting your “friend”. What the hell?

  • Good comment. Thanks a bunch!

  • Not overreacting, it could be a red flag. I would say your feelings and thoughts definitely are valid, but give her the benefit of the doubt and also ask what's going on, don't make false accusations. Break up with her if she turns out to be bullying your friend and/or making you choose between her or him as an ultimatum.

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  • I’m sorry. You are a terrible person. You sound awful.