Hey, I went through a similar situation so I'll share the advice I was given: just be honest. It might hurt her to some degree, but it'll be better than just holding in your feelings. Looks like you were already honest with her by the post message.
I'm going through a similar situation except I think I'm straight and I'm with a woman. I'd say she can let the feeling pass and if they become too hard to handle, stronger than her feelings for you then break up.
We’re twins! I live in the U.S. and my girlfriend Ania lives in Poland. We get limited time but for example, you’d still be awake to talk to her for quite some time.
Hey, I went through a similar situation so I'll share the advice I was given: just be honest. It might hurt her to some degree, but it'll be better than just holding in your feelings. Looks like you were already honest with her by the post message.