"how dare you take the only choice available to you" energy.
Individual members of any society or any military are not stand-ins for all the evil of that society or military. If they are, I guarantee your own membership on some groups - whether by choice or chance - would condemn you as harshly as anyone on earth.
There are no unflawed people or systems. Don't become an abuser because you were abused.
Awesome, who taught you how to organize your community and which community volunteered their HUGE amount of spare time and effort for your benefit?
Some of us had a fucking choice between dying homeless or learning to survive in the military, and you removed about it now is a weak-ass bitter excuse for venting your frustration at the wrong goddamn people.
The thousand injuries of Fortunato I had borne as best I could, but when he ventured upon insult I vowed revenge!
Um-many decades later, I still remember my English teacher ranting this line over and over, putting emphasis on a different word each time.