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AllukaTheCutie7725 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

What kind of dumbasses think we pretend to be trans??

I just recently had some awful DM harassment from a transphobic idiot who told me that I was pretending to be trans. It was dealt with but I'm still left wondering. Why do some people believe that we would pretend to be trans? What do they think someone would gain by "pretending" to be trans. It just seems so stupid because I've dealt with so much oppression and people invalidating me my whole life, and yet they still think I'm pretending to be trans for some some reason...? Why? What the fuck does someone gain from pretending to be trans? This makes no fucking sense whatsoever.

Sorry for this rant, I really needed to get this off my chest.

Antiwork: Unemployment for all, not just the rich! @lemmit.online
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My sister says I should find a job that I really like

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The original was posted on /r/antiwork by /u/Emotional_Spite_8937 on 2023-12-03 23:00:47.


[Venting]

This happened a few hours ago and I’m still fuming thinking about it. I’m not sure if it totally belongs to this sub but here we go.

My (28F) sister (25F) is crashing in my apartment for 2 nights because she’s traveling home and needed somewhere to stay in Paris. She can’t/doesn’t really wanna book a hotel because why do it when you can stay at your sister’s for free? She’s my sister, I love her so when she asked me if she could spend a few nights here I didn’t have a problem.

Anyway, so tonight we were eating dinner and she asked me what I did exactly at my job. I have a hard time explaining to people and I told her that and I tried exp

Programming @beehaw.org
luciole (he/him) @beehaw.org

I’m NOT excited about coding by AI

I’m a dev. I’ve been for a while. My boss does a lot technology watch. He brings in a lot of cool ideas and information. He’s down to earth. Cool guy. I like him, but he’s now convinced that AI LLMs are about to swallow the world and the pressure to inject this stuff everywhere in our org is driving me nuts.

I enjoy every part of making software, from discussing with the clients and the future users to coding to deployment. I am NOT excited at the prospect of transitioning from designing an architecture and coding it to ChatGPT prompting. This sort of black box magic irks me to no end. Nobody understands it! I don’t want to read yet another article about how an AI enthusiast is baffled at how good an LLM is at coding. Why are they baffled? They have "AI" twelves times in their bio! If they don’t understand it who does?!

I’ve based twenty years of career on being attentive, inquisitive, creative and thorough. By now, in-depth understanding of my tools and more importantly of my work i

Autism @lemmy.ml
Amicese @lemmy.ml

I dislike how I'm politically gullible due to struggling with contexts.

Politics is full of nuance and contextual information; so struggling with interpreting social contexts can lead to autistic people being gullible.

Anything @lemmy.ml
Amicese @lemmy.ml

Subreddit r/Animemes Bans 'Trap', Loses Almost 100k Subscribers in Two Weeks - Nicchiban

So I'm just now realizing why the word "trap" and animemes controversy was a controversy and I feel stupid for blindly siding with animemes.

When I first heard abut this controversy, in /r/animemes; I believed in the animemes community because I (somehow) thought their rights were being taken away.

Sometime later, I heard about the controversy through the /r/trans community; I found out that trap is a slur against (female-to-male) transsexuals. After that, I believed in the trans community side over the /r/animemes community.


I don't really care about this controversy; I forgot it even happened; but I feel so gullible in general because all sides seem to make sense to me.